by Peter James | Apr 28, 2017 | Self-Development
It is important to live life without a feeling of regret and to not become impatient when things don’t always go your way. When you don’t get an instantaneous result, just remember that all good things take time to develop and take form. Many times life may require a 7 day a week work ethic in order to get ahead and make dreams a reality. If you work very hard, but still feel like you’re falling short of your goals whether dietary, financial, fitness, relationship, or spiritual goals, remember that success doesn’t come overnight. It takes a desire to change as well as persistence each and every day dedicated to a specific goal. It’s not always what you learn in school, but what you are able to take from it and how you apply what you learn. Whether it be life skills that you can use and utilize in daily life or knowledge applicable for any profession. Remember, never say that you can’t do something until you put your full effort into truly trying something. Don’t neglect knowledge, always keep on learning and refining your skills. Focus on helping the world with a re-generation of health, vibrancy, and potential to thrive. Below is a list of quotes that I have held and written down that may help to potentially revolutionize your life: “Anyone who stops learning is old, whether twenty or eighty. Anyone who keeps learning stays young. The greatest thing in life is to keep the mind young.” -Henry Ford (Entrepreneur, Businessman, Industrialist) “You can’t measure spirit, but you know it’s there it is something that moves you.”...
by Peter James | Feb 2, 2017 | Books, Business, Self-Development
If you haven’t heard of Dan S. Kennedy, he happens to be a business guru who helps other people across the globe start their own small businesses through his books, seminars, and teachings. He also happens to operate a website GKIC which offers packages for mentoring aspiring owners and operators. His approach is pretty direct and he happens to have some of the best advice on success in the business world that I’ve found among business authors. One of his books happens to share a lot of wisdom on how to develop a better mindset, which is my aim with this specific post. In order to give readers an idea of how Dan S. Kennedy can help improve your outlook towards the future whether it be through a job or a business, I felt like sharing some of his quotes. Listed below, is a composition of some of his best quotes from the book “How to Succeed In Business By Breaking All The Rules.” Here they are: “Shake Things up. Try doing the opposite and see if that works even better.” “Give in charity but never give in business. Place the highest possible value on your expertise and confidently present that value to the world.” “If you have a good education, by all means make the most of it. But never use a lack of formal education as an excuse and never let yourself feel inferior to those with better formal educations.” “What others perceive as arrogance may very well be the level of confidence, self-promotion, and pushiness necessary.” “Be wary of the “quitter” label. Rethink your ideas about...
by Peter James | Jan 27, 2017 | Self-Development
Social Media With the numerous social media outlets available in the world today, it isn’t uncommon for people to become trapped into these applications. Often times social media is a battleground between people’s ego’s and a simple way for people to share their life experiences with other people whom they’ve connected with previously in life. With social media you get some pros and cons. With that said, it appears that in the modern day a lot of people seem to suffer a lot more from the cons of social media. Many people get stuck in this mindset of endless comparison to other people. When people simply forget to live their own life and sit all day comparing themselves to other people and learning about how much better certain people have it in their life, it starts to damage the human psyche. Part of my life has been spent trying to discover ways in which I could obtain more happiness, and a lot of my happiness has been achieved through living life through experiencing it through my own eyes versus staring at a computer screen or smartphone social media app. What I hope to see in the future, is a continuation of social media, but rather for a different reason. I hope to see people using social media as a way to express their thoughts as well as a way to showcase changes that occur over time. In the future we may see more people boycotting social media as well as more people limiting their time on social media in order to be more productive in regards to reaching more...
by Peter James | Jan 17, 2017 | Self-Development
Forming assertive behavior habits is not to be confused with angry behavior. In fact being a passive aggressive person can be more of an expression of anger and stubbornness. The lack of assertive behavior is often due to the act of procrastination and holding off confrontation of fears. Being an assertive person comes down to your way of communication. The way that you communicate with your needs as well as your tasks that are assigned by others in your daily schedule of school or work is a reflection of assertiveness. Through taking action as an assertive person, you are essentially being friendly and personable with those you encounter, by forming positive relationships. Positive relationships with people are developed through the groundwork of rapport. In addition to having positive relationships, it also comes down to having a clear idea of WHERE you stand in life on various topics and knowing what areas of your life need the greatest work. An assertive person looks at specific areas of their life and wonders and asks how they can help themselves improve and reduce their stress by effectively managing time. Through the practice of assertiveness you begin to influence other people and recognize principles of wisdom. The practice of avoiding arguments that cause extra stir, showing respect towards other people’s opinions, and letting other people do more talking and doing more listening are all part of assertive behavior. The main characteristics of an assertive person come down to these main behaviors and techniques: Take Responsibility For Actions and Behaviors – For those who are eager to take responsibility of minor mistakes as well as...
by Peter James | Dec 21, 2015 | Self-Development
Over the years I’ve been putting my focus on something other than my website. I’ve been attending school full time and working different jobs in order to further deepen my knowledge and gain an edge in the professional world. Despite the flaws and arguments that remain of our modern day educational system, I’ve had to move beyond flaws and focus on self-development and take away the knowledge that I can and create a brighter future for myself and others around me. With this post, I have combined some different guidelines on how to help transform the lives of other people and help transform people’s potentials to new heights that they never knew they were capable of reaching. In order to do this it requires a Mental Frame Shift. This Mental Frame Shift can be conducted by anyone who is simply looking for more out of themselves and looking to take more control their body, mind, and soul. The following are my Eight Steps Toward Transformation which happens to be a part of a Mental Frame Shift: Think BIG! – Nobody ever had large feats by thinking small about themselves or thinking small about their potential to do things in the world. Once you start to develop a META state of mind, you can see life more clearly and see the big picture. When you think bigger you can see the positive beauty that exists in reality and create what you’ve always aspired to create. Better To Act Today Than Tomorrow – Don’t waste your time on yesterday’s potential. Stop dwelling on things that could have been done, and transition your mind to form...
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